Three of the leaders from different communities
Sharing some time playing soccer together
Once a month, I invite all of the church leaders, pastors, and church planters to share a short day together.
Our meeting runs from Friday evening at 6pm until Saturday afternoon at 4pm. The time together is intentionally directed towards spiritual refreshment.
Why?
Because for those that are normally "in front" and responsible, there is rarely a time when someone else is caring for the leader. And this is the time set aside for building up. Normally a pastor or leader goes to church and he is concerned about the preaching, the offering, the worship, who's there, who isn't, the audio/visual, etc, etc, etc. It is important to develop a time of refreshment based around a community of leaders, people that share similar concerns and experiences.
Here are some of the areas that to focus on. These are adapted from Acts 2:42+.
Eating together - There is something powerful in sharing a meal together. Eating together is a sign of brotherhood and friendship. It nurtures openness and transparency. It is a sign of celebration. North American culture tends to eat in a rush and has lost the value and impact of eating together.
Worshiping together - Worship brings us into God's presence and invites His presence into us. It is a moment of exchange. We give up the burdens that weigh us down and take on a "light & easy burden". Leaders often miss out on the worship because they are thinking of "the next thing" in the meeting. But, for this one day, they are unfettered with those concerns.
Praying together - It is often difficult to share the concerns of the heart and being in a group of peers nurtures openness. There are things that are hard to share, especially about the life of the church or family. But this provides a safe environment for meeting those needs in prayer. This is also a time to hear what God is saying, sharing together in listening prayer to help each other connect with our Lord.
Learning together - It is a time of instruction and learning from God's Word. It is a time to minister on topics that pertain to leadership and other topics that are unique to church leaders. It is a moment when the teachers are being taught.
Fellowship together - Building in time for visiting and sharing what's going on in each other's lives. Also building in time to play together, games and activities, and build a base of shared experiences. An important part of any relationship is to have times that are just fun and relaxed.
Organizing together - Finally, we also share a bit of time to organize our schedules and planning, especially for those events that impact the movement.
Leadership training is not only about the transfer of knowledge, it is about the transfer of life. And that is what we work to focus on and see happen on a regular basis.
Leaders worshiping together at our Training Center